Marrying a Japanese Man? Must-Know Tips for Wedding and Meeting His Parents
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Meeting your Japanese boyfriend’s parents before marriage can feel overwhelming. In this video, I share the essential do’s and don’ts of Japanese culture when you meet his family for the first time. What should you say, how polite should your Japanese be, and what gift should you bring?
I’ll break down what Japanese families typically expect, common mistakes to avoid, and practical tips to make a respectful impression. From choosing the right level of Japanese speech (very polite vs casual) to safe conversation topics, this guide will help you feel confident when visiting your boyfriend’s parents in Japan.
If you’re in an international relationship with a Japanese man or preparing for a wedding in Japan, these insights will give you clarity and confidence.
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▼ Timestamps
00:00 Opening
00:16 Today’s Agenda
01:30 Today’s Comment
03:17 Santi Save People’s Life
03:50 Tips for Planning a Wedding in Japan
05:32 Good Fortune Date in Japan
07:18 Understand Japanese Wedding
09:38 Check His Family Carefully
11:40 Worst Wedding Story Santi heard before
14:09 Santi Japanese Language School Ad
20:38 Check list when you meet his parents
22:53 Gift for Parents
24:35 How and What to talk with his Parents
29:50 Great Family member story Santi heard before
31:25 It’s better lower the bar ” I can speak Japanese ”
34:30 Very Polite, Polite, Casual Japanese
36:30 Today’s Final Message
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